Posted in Energy Designer

Design Your Life

Design Your Life

The energy we bring to our lives can be intentionally cultivated, much like we thoughtfully design the interiors of our homes.

The excitement of decorating a new house or empty room sparks our imagination and opens up a world of possibilities. Similarly, life presents us with opportunities for self-expression in different contexts. We can shape our experiences by asking ourselves how we want to navigate our days and what kind of flow we desire in our lives.

Some individuals possess an innate ability to influence the atmosphere of the spaces they occupy, effortlessly enhancing their surroundings with their presence. These individuals have a unique talent for infusing life with a touch of artistry. This can manifest in various ways, such as their distinctive personal style, their captivating conversational abilities, or even their thoughtful gestures, like consistently bringing a bouquet of wildflowers as a gift when visiting.

Our presence, intentional or not, makes a statement. The energy we emit shifts depending on our attire. A simple, elegant ensemble evokes a different atmosphere than a vibrant, cheerful outfit with a floppy hat. Neither is superior; both are valid expressions.

The ambiance we cultivate is ultimately a matter of personal preference. Our attire is merely one element to consider. The way we communicate and interact with others has a far more profound impact on the energy we project. Our words, and the tone in which we deliver them, compose the music we introduce into our shared world. Some may fill the space with vibrant melodies, while others offer soothing harmonies. Both have their place; we are all called to contribute our unique voices.

Our homes are a reflection of our conscious choices, and alike we can intentionally infuse our unique energy into our lives. Ideally, this allows us to express our inner selves, adding adornments to the world that enhance its meaning, and beauty to create a welcoming atmosphere akin to a cherished home.

Peace & Harmony, Cheryl

Yours in Chaos to Calm, 𝓒𝓱𝓮𝓻𝔂𝓵

If you require more comprehensive guidance than the information provided in my blog, consider my personalized coaching programs. Book a complimentary consultation to explore the factors hindering your journey toward organized living spaces. Together, we will identify your challenges and develop a tailored strategy to help you achieve your goals. I anticipate the opportunity to collaborate with you to transform your lifestyle.

Let’s Chat! Cheryl Camacho # 860-941-8630

A TEXT  gets to me faster: Name, Issue, the Best time to call

Email: ccamacho@lifestyle-by-designs.com 

Posted in Music Heals

With just four days until the most important election of our lifetime, every vote is a voice for the future we want. This is our chance to decide on the issues, protect our rights, and shape our communities. Don’t let this moment slip by—stand up, speak out, and vote for the change you want to see. Every. Single. Vote. Counts.

With the challenges we face, it’s imperative to prioritize quality time with those who truly matter. In times of adversity, coming together and supporting one another is crucial. Instead of creating distance, let’s embrace inclusivity and strengthen our bonds.

Peace ♥ Harmony, Cheryl

Posted in Visualization

Vision Your Intentions

Vision Your Intentions

If you find yourself at a standstill in life and yearn for transformation, take a moment to proclaim to the universe your readiness for change.

In most of our lives, a pivotal moment arrives when we sense a profound readiness for a transformative change. This change may involve leaving a home, ending a relationship, quitting a job, or departing from a town that has long felt unfulfilling. However, despite this inner longing, we often find ourselves unable to actively shift our circumstances in the direction we desire.

Amidst life’s challenges, declaring our readiness for change can be life-changing. Envision it as confiding in a supportive friend, seeking their assistance in transitioning to a higher level of existence. When the timing aligns, the universe reciprocates by presenting opportunities and resources tailored to facilitate the desired change.

To initiate the manifestation process, it’s crucial to establish clear intentions. Specificity is vital when seeking assistance, as it enables others to offer more targeted support. Similarly, the universe responds more effectively to direct and unambiguous communications rather than vague desires.

Practical Manifestation Techniques

  • Step one: Think. Positive thinking. Address any habitual mental patterns that you engage in that paint the opposite reality to which you want to attract. …
  • Step two: Feel. Gratitude rituals. The vibration of receiving is the emotion of gratitude. …
  • Step three: Believe. Visualization exercises.

________________________________________

When you’ve established your desires, express them clearly. Record your declaration on paper and place it on your altar if you have one. If not, put it under your pillow or in a box by your bedside. Set aside a specific time each day for silent reflection on your desire for change. Repeat your declaration like a mantra. This signals to the universe that you’re ready for transformation and open to its assistance.

Continue to refine and redefine your statement of purpose, keeping an open mind to the various ways in which your desired change can come to fruition. Remember to actively pursue your goals, seize opportunities, watch for signs, and take ownership of your intentions.

When things don’t unfold promptly, resist discouragement. Consider the possibility that releasing blocked energy might take time or serve a purpose beyond our comprehension. By maintaining a clear and open dialogue with the universe, you’ll naturally witness the transformative magic of change, both within yourself and in your surroundings.

Peace & Harmony, Cheryl

♪ On A Personal Note ♫

Throughout my life, I have discovered that visualization plays a pivotal role in my daily routine. Despite my hectic schedule, I make a conscious effort to engage in the visualization process. This practice grants me clarity and focus regarding my goals and aspirations. Visualization is a powerful tool in setting intentions because it allows you to see, feel, and mentally experience the reality of your goal before it physically manifests. By creating a vivid mental image of your desired outcome, you strengthen your commitment and establish a clear direction for your actions. This process aligns your thoughts and emotions with the energy needed to bring your goal to life, acting as a catalyst for motivation and resilience when challenges arise. Visualization not only clarifies what you truly want but also primes your subconscious mind to recognize opportunities, enabling you to take steps that bridge the gap between where you are now and where you want to be. Enjoy!

Posted in Lifestyle Coach

Healthier & More Balanced Lifestyle

Polyvagal therapy aims to enhance the body’s inherent capacity for self-regulation, fostering a secure internal environment.

As the world navigates through unprecedented times, marked by heightened anxiety and uncertainty, it is imperative that we prioritize the care and well-being of our minds. In a global landscape where challenges seem to multiply, we must equip ourselves with the tools and resources necessary to safeguard our mental health. Only then can we effectively support and uplift one another.

In these moments of trepidation, it is essential to recognize that mental health is just as crucial as physical health. Neglecting one’s emotional and psychological well-being can have far-reaching consequences, impacting our ability to function effectively, make sound decisions, and maintain healthy relationships.

Therefore, we must take proactive steps to nurture our mental health. This may include engaging in regular exercise, practicing mindfulness and meditation, maintaining a balanced diet, getting sufficient sleep, and seeking professional help when needed.

Additionally, it is crucial to create a supportive environment that fosters open communication and empathy. Encouraging conversations about mental health can help to reduce stigma and empower individuals to seek the support they need.

By prioritizing our mental health, we create a ripple effect that positively impacts our families, communities, and society as a whole. When we are mentally well, we are more resilient, adaptable, and better equipped to handle whatever life throws our way.

In these times of uncertainty, let us all commit to taking care of our mental health so that we can emerge stronger, more compassionate, and more connected with ourselves and one another. ♥

I hope the polyvagus therapy below helps you find resilience . . . 

Navigating the complexities of nervous system dysregulation can be daunting, particularly when past traumas unexpectedly re-emerge. These experiences leave imprints on our bodies, manifesting through physical and emotional symptoms. Fortunately, there is a beacon of hope and healing through polyvagal therapy. Grounded in scientific evidence, this approach focuses on the vagus nerve, offering a pathway toward recovery and well-being.

The vagus nerve, a crucial component of our parasympathetic nervous system, significantly influences our ability to relax, manage emotions, and develop resilience. By engaging in practices such as deep breathing, humming, and mindfulness, we can stimulate this nerve, which can effectively reset our stress responses and restore equilibrium within our nervous system.

Polyvagal therapy harnesses the body’s inherent capacity for self-regulation, fostering a secure internal environment. It facilitates a transition from fight-flight-or-freeze states toward tranquility and connection. This shift is instrumental in trauma healing, as it creates a supportive atmosphere conducive to processing and releasing past pain. Techniques such as therapeutic movement, somatic exercises, and focused breathing play pivotal roles in stimulating the vagus nerve, a key player in cultivating peace and well-being.

Incorporate simple tools into your daily routine for nervous system regulation and overall well-being. Engage in activities such as singing or humming to yourself, taking a cold shower, immersing yourself in nature, sharing physical affection, shaking or dancing, or playing with your pet. Transform these practices into mindful breaks, creating a consistent self-care routine. Scientific research has demonstrated that regular regulation enhances our presence, productivity, and resilience to stress and anxiety. Embracing nervous system regulation is a transformative approach for long-term wellness and emotional health. It’s never too late to embark on this journey toward a healthier and more balanced life.

Peace & Harmony, Cheryl

Posted in Decisions

Focus On Yourself

Don’t Compare Yourself Celebrate Yourself

Peace & Harmony, Cheryl

Yours in Chaos to Calm, 𝓒𝓱𝓮𝓻𝔂𝓵

If you require more comprehensive guidance than the information provided in my article, consider my personalized coaching programs. Book a complimentary consultation to explore the factors hindering your journey toward organized living spaces. Together, we will identify your challenges and develop a tailored strategy to help you achieve your goals. I anticipate the opportunity to collaborate with you to transform your lifestyle.

Let’s Chat! Cheryl Camacho # 860-941-8630

A TEXT  gets to me faster: Name, Issue, the Best time to call

Email: ccamacho@lifestyle-by-designs.com 

Posted in Self-Worth

Where Is Your Self-Worth?

Where is your self-worth?

Excessive apologizing may indicate a lack of self-worth and low self-esteem.

In social interactions, apologizing is a common courtesy that maintains politeness. While it’s beneficial, excessive apologizing for everything warrants introspection. It’s crucial to understand the underlying reasons behind the constant urge to utter “I’m sorry” to gain clarity and make necessary adjustments.

When confronted with a situation that has gone awry, expressing regret through the words “I’m sorry” implies accountability for one’s actions. Whether it’s negotiating parking spots, navigating crowded supermarket aisles, or reaching for desired items, there are instances where an apology is appropriate. However, there are also times when a simple “excuse me” better reflects the nature of the encounter.

“Saying ‘sorry’ can sometimes feel like you’re giving the other person more importance than yourself. Of course, sometimes it’s just a harmless way to chill things down. But if you find yourself apologizing all the time, it might be worth digging deeper and figuring out why that is. If it’s a habit, breaking it might just take a little mindfulness and practice.”

To begin the process of reducing your apologies, start by observing yourself throughout your day. Pay attention to each instance when you apologize, without judging yourself. Initially, you may be surprised to notice how frequently you apologize, perhaps more than you realize. After a day or two of observation, focus on understanding the feelings you experience immediately before apologizing.

During confrontations, you may experience a range of emotions like feeling threatened, embarrassed, or overwhelmed by intense anxiety. Instead of immediately reacting with words, take a moment to pause and simply acknowledge the feeling that arises. It might be a familiar emotion from your childhood that has persisted over time. The more you recognize and accept these feelings, the less likely you will be to carry the burden of regret.

Peace & Harmony, Cheryl

Posted in Grace

Count Your Blessings

Count Your Blessings

When we start appreciating the gift of life and the experiences we have, our thankfulness grows stronger.

When we practice being thankful, we often take time to recognize the good things, like people, things, and places that make up our lives. It’s awesome to appreciate our good fortune, but real thankfulness comes from understanding that just being alive is a gift, no matter what’s going on. When we’re truly grateful, we realize that being alive is a special experience, and we feel connected to the mysterious beauty of life itself.

You know, it’s tough for most of us to tap into that deep level of awareness, right? We’re all caught up in the rollercoaster of our own lives, with all its ups and downs. But here’s the thing: the world is like a tide, it goes in and out, gets bigger and smaller, and gives and takes. It’s not always reliable. So, if we only say “thank you” when things go our way, that’s not real gratitude.

Life is full of surprises, and it can take away our belongings, relationships, and even the people we cherish at any moment. But ironically, it’s often this kind of loss that makes us appreciate life more, beyond just being happy when things go our way. Even getting sick or having a close call with an accident, or a hurricane and flooding can be a wake-up call, reminding us how lucky we are to be alive.

You don’t have to wait for a big shake-up in your life to appreciate it. Just taking a few moments each day to focus on your breath and be present in the moment can do wonders for making you feel grateful. And remember, the life force that flows through you is generous and unconditional, no matter what’s going on around you. So, let’s wake up and be more aware of that!

Peace & Harmony, Cheryl

Posted in Meditation

Morning Rituals

In my pursuit of inner peace and balance, I stumbled upon a treasure trove of guided meditations on YouTube. Recognizing their potential to uplift my spirit, I decided to share them with you. I have made them an integral part of my morning routine, believing every little bit of assistance can make a difference when caught in a cycle of negativity. These meditations serve as a powerful tool to center myself and restore equilibrium whenever I feel off balance.

“Meditation nourishes the mind in the same way that food nourishes the body.” 

Peace & Harmony, Cheryl