. . . Who remembers that tune? It may have been a silly song but it carries a serious message.
Worrying is being scared, and it can make the things you don’t want happen more often
Certainly, we have all experienced moments of intense worry about various matters. Some individuals possess a natural tendency toward worry, and they often recognize themselves in such situations. Additionally, we are all familiar with someone who seems perpetually troubled by a multitude of concerns. Worrying shares a close relationship with fear and can have a profound impact on our well-being.
My mother had a saying: “Worrying is like a rocking chair it gives you something to do but you don’t get anywhere”
Worrying entails conjuring up negative scenarios that haven’t materialized yet. It’s like crafting an elaborate drama of fear in the mind. Despite its lack of foundation in reality, many of us still engage in this unnecessary practice of worry.
Our anxiety stems from the perceived lack of control over certain situations, doesn’t it? For example, when a loved one is driving home during inclement weather, we feel helpless, and unable to ensure their safety. Despite this, our worries persist until we know they’ve arrived home safe and sound. It’s as if worrying gives us a sense of agency and prevents us from feeling completely helpless.
Here’s the reality: worry is like an annoying friend who barges in and refuses to leave, and it’s not doing you any favors. It weighs down your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. But there’s a surprising twist! You have the power to transform this worrying energy into something that serves you. Since worry harnesses your imagination, why not redirect it to create something positive instead?
When anxiety strikes, don’t dwell on worst-case scenarios. Instead, envision the most favorable outcome. Picture your loved ones bathed in a safe and radiant white light, traveling toward their destination. Imagine angels or guides accompanying them on their journey. This positive visualization will replace nervousness and worry with a sense of peace and tranquility. Trust me, it’s a powerful technique that works wonders.
Have you ever had that nagging feeling of something pending, like a lingering parking ticket, an approaching exam, or a friend drama swirling in your thoughts? Instead of letting it weigh you down, the most effective solution is to acknowledge your concerns and take proactive steps. Imagine the relief once you confront the situation head-on. By taking charge, you free yourself from the burden of constant worry.
Peace ♥ Harmony, Cheryl
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