Raising A Child’s Confidence
Giving your kids the power to be happy on their own is like the best gift ever!
All parents love their kids. We want them to be happy and give them everything we never had. But sometimes, we can go overboard and spoil them.
But here’s the thing: buying your kids a bunch of expensive gifts or trying to make up for your emotional baggage by smothering them with attention might not be the best idea. It could be messing with their growth and development.
Let me drop some real talk! One of the best things you can do for your kids is to help them become independent and self-sufficient. Teach them how to work for the things they want and take responsibility for their happiness. That way, when they’re all grown up and ready to fly the coop, you can rest easy knowing you raised a kid who can handle themselves and make a positive impact on the world.
If kids are always taken care of and not allowed to do things on their own, they may start to think they deserve everything without having to work for it. Sometimes we give our kids too much because it makes us happy, or we don’t want them to get mad at us.
Kids who get all the love, attention, and affection they need tend to be nicer, more generous, and more in charge of their lives than those who get everything they want. They grow up knowing who they are, even if they don’t have the fanciest stuff or the most popular friends. And when they’re all grown up, they realize that everyone’s gotta make their way in the world.
So, you’re giving your kid everything they want, huh? Ever wonder why? Turns out, it might have more to do with you than them. Raising kids to appreciate money and be self-sufficient can be tough, but it’s worth it.
It can be tough to see your kid struggling to reach their goals, but it’s awesome to be there for them when they finally do it. You have to be understanding and compassionate and be there for them. That way, you’re helping them grow up into the best version of themselves.
Peace ♥ Harmony, Cheryl
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